We're all WIPs!

And so I made a list..

Just like the next girl

A list of the qualities i required in a man

He just had to have them. I mean c'mon!

I tried to pray/decree my way into having the perfect man

But God wasn't having any of that...

I imagined him seated on his glorious throne saying 'You gotta put in some work baby girl"

And put in work i had to do!

Because this masterpiece in its unrefined stage that I am is waiting to be unravelled to the world in all of its maximum awesomeness.

Chiseling myself into the person I aspire to be

Investing quality time and energy into bringing out my best self

You see, self love is one of the major keys to success.

Self love will make you realise that before you get "Relationship goals", you should get some "Life goals"

Life goals means you being stable financially, spiritually, emotionally and mentally.

So, before you enter something brand new, pray to be the best version of YOU there is.

Sometimes, we meet people and assume they're oh so perfect for us but it is their baggage from their previous relationship gets in the way. Or their trust issues. Drinking issues. Smoking issues. Not equally yolked issues.

Our focus shouldn't be on getting IN a relationship but on getting equipped with what it takes to maintain one.

I have come to learn that meaningful relationships aren't defined by how rich, intelligent and handsome your partner is

It isn't about your partner pleasuring you till you climax and you literally hear the Angels sing an A Capella Hallelujah!

The mind blowing sex, the shopping sprees, the vacations are all add-ons and not the package!

Hello! Also from the other side, too often, we seek perfection where it is non-existent

We have a tendency to want our partners to be finished products while we give ourselves the grace to evolve.

Self centeredness on fleek! (Dasuki Level)

Agreed. You want a lot in a man. But what work have you put into bettering yourself that makes you feel you "deserve" a lot?

Because you see, to whom much is given, much is required.

If i want a man with a great vision, wealth and the likes, i would have to be up to standard

How can God entrust the wealth of many nations into my hands when i haven't learnt the Kingdom principles and economics.

It is synonymous to a 4 year old asking His Father for an SUV. He wouldn't know what to do with it!

Oh well, i'm sleepy as hell and i just though i'd drop this.



*WIP* (Work In Progress)